Separate people from their costumes!

It has been said: Separate People from the problem. And I add: Separate people from their costumes and clothes, and look at them as humans with dignity.

Motivation vs. preaching!

There is a huge difference but a thin line between "motivation", "influencing" and "Preaching"... People need someone to motivate them, influence them to make the change needed in their lives.... But, NEVER a PREACHER who assumes that he/ she owns the whole truth, and he / she is "in the know" and you are ignorant and needed to be advised.